"If we always agreed with one another on everything, there would be no individuality and no identity," Gary Hatch wrote in "Arguing in Communities". Hatch spends time talking about why arguments happen, and how we can have a successful and responsible argument, rather than a mess of words and unintended insults.
One point that Hatch seems to return to throughout the reading is the concept of approaching arguments with an open mind. While we often want to stand up for what we believe in arguments, it can be beneficial to both sides, and the argument overall, if we stop to take in or consider the opposing side's thoughts and reasoning. Hatch wrote, "And although we have many similar experiences as humans, no two humans have experienced the world in the exact same way," which appears as a reminder that everyone has had different experiences, their own troubles, and their own separate lives. We never should assume someone's background, and should always keep our minds open to additional, new, or opposing ideas.
While we need to keep an open mind throughout arguments, arguing does have its benefits. "Arguing allows individuals to negotiate their differences in ways that are reasonable," points out Hatch. People can learn about those around them within an argument, which could aid in finding a solution or agreeing point. Even though the "power of communication" in a less intimidating way would be a more peaceful friendly option to reach an agreement, an argument can always be helpful when done respectfully.
Disagreement is natural in groups of people and there is nothing wrong with these disagreements. As long as we are respecting each other's harmless opinions and approaching discussions appropriately, there is nothing inherently wrong with discussions or arguments.
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